How to Gain Confidence in Your Relationship
Millions of women worldwide contemplate the strange behaviors of their boyfriends but you should rest assured that this is perfectly normal.
Men and women are different and instead of becoming weary of your boyfriends behavior, you should gain confidence in your relationship.
Women tend to want to smother their boyfriends even more so in the beginning of the relationship.
You must allow your boyfriend time to himself because if you do not, he will eventually begin resenting you.
You want your boyfriend to be able to spend time with his friends.
It is not fair to try and limit the things your boyfriend enjoys doing within his life.
You must accept the fact that your boyfriend had a life before you and this should not change just because you have trust issues.
If you cannot gain confidence in your relationship, talk to your boyfriend about these issues and keep it nice and calm while accepting the fact that you must loosen the reins on your boyfriend otherwise, he will more than likely run as if he is running from a burning building.
So many women focus on trying to understand men.
I have news for everyone, women will never understand men the same as men will never understand women.
This is what makes both genders unique.
You want to embrace the differences which exist between the genders for this is what makes relationships fun and exciting.
Do you doubt your attractiveness? Before bringing this issue to the table with your boyfriend, you must first ask yourself if this is your problem or your boyfriend's problem.
It is no wonder that women have self-esteem issues when our society is consistently showing us unrealistic role models for women in the movies, television and magazines.
You must realize that you are only as attractive as you feel.
Do not follow the examples given to women by our media mainstream.
This is an issue you must face alone as compared to bringing it to the attention of your boyfriend.
This is not his issue, this is your issue.
Word of warning, men do not find women attractive who are consistently berating themselves or fishing for compliments.
Men enjoy confident women therefore, work on this issue alone and do not make your boyfriend feel that he has to compliment you every five minutes.
Finally, if you truly want to gain confidence in your relationship then take charge of your own life as compared to focusing solely on your relationship.
Your boyfriend needs to view you in control of your life.
The focus of your relationship should be mutual trust gained by both of you while earning the respect needed for a long-lasting relationship.