It"s a Revolution - The Discovery of the Right Way to Understand Flirting With a Woman
Before we start I must mention one thing that you must be aware of and it is a very important fact.
Women do not like cocky men.
Confident men, yes cocky men no.
Be cocky and they will see you as a total jerk.
Showing off your hot car, being flash with your money, going on about the importance of your job and in short showing your own self-importance is not a good way to get a girl's attention.
They actually see it as a weakness and as a defect in your personality.
Now that is said let us get on with the main topic - discovering the right way to understand flirting with a woman.
Flirting is a fun way of showing a girl that you are interested in her.
Now imagine this, you have met and are talking to a woman for the first time.
She is beautiful and she is interested in what you are saying.
What is going on? Flirting helps create sexual tension and it is part of the mating ritual of the human being.
It helps determine if the attraction is mutual and if it can go further.
If and when you are flirting with a woman you must display the traits of a male that women find most attractive; these being leadership, confidence, humour, etc.
Yes all these should be displayed but should be aware that generally women respond most favourably to men that show confidence and being in touch with your emotions.
By now you will have gathered that flirting is your chance to demonstrate the core values that women want from a mate.
We have talked about verbal cues now I think we should touch on the other 90% of communication that is body language.
Yes, speaking only covers 10% of human communication (90% and 10% are approximate figures).
One point to make is that simply talking to a woman will not make her interested in you.
You and another bloke could say exactly the same thing to her and she will still make a choice as you both deliver different messages.
You are going to learn to use your voice, gestures and your overall body language to make your message stand out and be more attractive to her.
The last point I want to raise with you here is that women are a natural flirt and this can confuse us men.
This means that a woman can flirt with someone that she has a romantic interest in or just a platonic interest in.
You must learn to know the difference, another reason why it is so important to understand flirting.
Women do not like cocky men.
Confident men, yes cocky men no.
Be cocky and they will see you as a total jerk.
Showing off your hot car, being flash with your money, going on about the importance of your job and in short showing your own self-importance is not a good way to get a girl's attention.
They actually see it as a weakness and as a defect in your personality.
Now that is said let us get on with the main topic - discovering the right way to understand flirting with a woman.
Flirting is a fun way of showing a girl that you are interested in her.
Now imagine this, you have met and are talking to a woman for the first time.
She is beautiful and she is interested in what you are saying.
What is going on? Flirting helps create sexual tension and it is part of the mating ritual of the human being.
It helps determine if the attraction is mutual and if it can go further.
If and when you are flirting with a woman you must display the traits of a male that women find most attractive; these being leadership, confidence, humour, etc.
Yes all these should be displayed but should be aware that generally women respond most favourably to men that show confidence and being in touch with your emotions.
By now you will have gathered that flirting is your chance to demonstrate the core values that women want from a mate.
We have talked about verbal cues now I think we should touch on the other 90% of communication that is body language.
Yes, speaking only covers 10% of human communication (90% and 10% are approximate figures).
One point to make is that simply talking to a woman will not make her interested in you.
You and another bloke could say exactly the same thing to her and she will still make a choice as you both deliver different messages.
You are going to learn to use your voice, gestures and your overall body language to make your message stand out and be more attractive to her.
The last point I want to raise with you here is that women are a natural flirt and this can confuse us men.
This means that a woman can flirt with someone that she has a romantic interest in or just a platonic interest in.
You must learn to know the difference, another reason why it is so important to understand flirting.