Have you ever dated a guy and he seemed lukewarm to you even though you were crazy about him? If you have you're certainly not alone. Many women find themselves living this exact situation. When it comes to the question of how to make a man want you the answer may be a bit surprising.

Naturally, what most women think of first when they are wonderinghow to make a man want you is appearance. Men do pay attention to how you look, but maybe not in the way you might think. You don't have to be super thin or have beautifully styled hair to appeal to a man. You do have to take care of yourself though. Regardless of your size, dress well. Take the time to apply some make up and always wear a smile. If you are give off the impression that you value who you are enough to take care of yourself, he's going to treat you the same way.

Men don't want to be with women who fall in love too easily. Most of us have made the critical mistake of telling a man we loved him before he was ready to hear it. Actually we tend to word it a bit differently and say something about how we're falling in love with him. If you two haven't been together long and he has never indicated he feels the same way, keep that information to yourself. Men want women they have to work for. He wants to chase you so he can catch you. If you make it too easy for him, he'll lose interest very quickly.

Another answer to the question of how to make a man want you is tried and true. Playing hard to get has always worked. It's certainly not as simple as the advice that used to float around that told you to virtually ignore a man and it would drive him crazy. That really doesn't work. What does work is a little give and take. Be available most of the time but ensure that there are times that you have other plans. Also, don't always call him back immediately if you miss his call. Make him wonder what's more important than him and he'll work hard to become the most important thing in your life.