How Women Lose Respect For You
If you've been in the dating game for a while, you've probably noticed how hard it is to meet a woman who becomes genuinely attracted to you after the first date.
Some men might attribute this lack of success to the idea that "she's not the one," but that's only for men who can't get their act together with new women.
The fact of the matter is when you do certain things right on the first date, any woman can be "the one.
" The problem is that most men do many things wrong when meeting new women for the first time.
Many of us grow up programmed to be the perfect gentleman, holding doors, pulling out chairs, and being stiff, formal, and polite during the first date.
The problem with this is that while following the rules to the letter does get you somewhere, it can only get you so far.
You'll need to remember that any new woman you meet has most likely had many other first dates with other men in the past, and that all these men probably tried to be the perfect gentleman with them too.
So how do you think she'd feel if you tried to act in the exact same way as they did? Of course - she'd feel bored out of her skull.
You'd be bored too, if you realized you could predict every little thing she'll say or do next.
This is one of the most effective ways to make a woman lose her respect for you.
At most she might consider you as a friend she'd like to meet once in a long while, but definitely not someone she'd like to get into a long-term relationship with.
Put bluntly, she's going to see you as a wuss - not exactly the kind of person anyone would like to spend the rest of their life with.
If you want women to respect you, you'll need to show them that you got your act together.
Women go for confident men who has their act together so well that the rules don't really hang over their head so much.
Confident men know when to follow the rules, when to bend them, and when to break them entirely.
That's the kind of man any woman would respect! So don't hang on to the rules for dear life.
Know that women would like an interesting, fun date.
If you can give her a breath of fresh dating air, you can bet she'll want to see you again for a second meeting soon.
Some men might attribute this lack of success to the idea that "she's not the one," but that's only for men who can't get their act together with new women.
The fact of the matter is when you do certain things right on the first date, any woman can be "the one.
" The problem is that most men do many things wrong when meeting new women for the first time.
Many of us grow up programmed to be the perfect gentleman, holding doors, pulling out chairs, and being stiff, formal, and polite during the first date.
The problem with this is that while following the rules to the letter does get you somewhere, it can only get you so far.
You'll need to remember that any new woman you meet has most likely had many other first dates with other men in the past, and that all these men probably tried to be the perfect gentleman with them too.
So how do you think she'd feel if you tried to act in the exact same way as they did? Of course - she'd feel bored out of her skull.
You'd be bored too, if you realized you could predict every little thing she'll say or do next.
This is one of the most effective ways to make a woman lose her respect for you.
At most she might consider you as a friend she'd like to meet once in a long while, but definitely not someone she'd like to get into a long-term relationship with.
Put bluntly, she's going to see you as a wuss - not exactly the kind of person anyone would like to spend the rest of their life with.
If you want women to respect you, you'll need to show them that you got your act together.
Women go for confident men who has their act together so well that the rules don't really hang over their head so much.
Confident men know when to follow the rules, when to bend them, and when to break them entirely.
That's the kind of man any woman would respect! So don't hang on to the rules for dear life.
Know that women would like an interesting, fun date.
If you can give her a breath of fresh dating air, you can bet she'll want to see you again for a second meeting soon.