Instructions

1

Eliminate negativity. If your thoughts are negative, you will attract more of the same. Even if your life is currently lacking healthy relationships, tell yourself that you have plentiful good relationships. This shift will attract positivity into your life.
2

Know what you're looking for. Write a list of all the qualities you look for in another person. Do you possess these qualities? Take it upon yourself to project these characteristics.
3

Be compassionate. People are not perfect, and neither are you. In order to forgive others for their flaws, you must first forgive yourself. Loving yourself is the first step to loving another.
4

Let go of jealousy. To be truly happy for another is the greatest gift. By shifting your energy from focusing on what you don't have to sharing in the joy of another, you will attract joy for yourself as well.
5

Be patient. Do not grow anxious if people are slow to come into your life. These things take time, and many things must align for a good connection to ensue. Stay positive and optimistic.