Sometimes the best way to get dates with girls is not to go out prospecting but to make it really easy for girls to hit on you and to ask you out. There is nothing more powerful than being at the right place at the right time. There is no luck involved in this, it's all about hard work and constant effort.





Dating in general usually means that you have to go out there and stick your neck out time and again. As I have told you many times before, dating is a numbers game and in order to be good at it, you have to be willing to hit the pavement and put in your dues. But there are ways to bring women to you and have them do some of the hard work.





To do this you have to master the ability to be at the right place at the right time. First and foremost you have to master the ability to be seen up and about. This means that you have to take an active role in your social life and you have to be out in social gatherings. Moreover you have to be a good social gamer; this means that you have to be funny, sociable, friendly, and exciting to be around. Women crave leaders and rebels so it is therefore necessary that you act as, and are perceived as, a guy on the cutting edge of it all.





Secondly you have to be able to be at the right places. This means that you know where the pulse of your community is. It doesn't have to be about the coolest clubs or the best restaurants. More often than not, the truly cool things in your community have to do with homegrown social events like sports leagues, benefits, or large volunteering events. Get to know the big players and become part of this social scene. Get your picture in the paper helping out for a certain cause or attend and help out at a money raising event or two.





In a very short time, you will begin to have women asking about your social status. If you are willing to put in the time and the effort to give a bit of yourself and if you can portray yourself to others as a leader; then you won't have to chase women so much because they will be chasing you.