Does he/she still love you? How do we know that, well when you first met something must have attracted them to you, was it your looks, your personality, and the way you dressed, something attracted you to them.
So have you changed any of these attractions, you need to look at your self.
We can change any of the above scenarios without even knowing it.
Can we turn the flicker into a flame again? Yes we can it happens all the time, you hear of couples falling back in love over And over again.
So how do we light the flame again.
We need to look at ourselves and see how the flame first got lit when you first met and what attracted the two of you together.
That is where you will find the answer.
We haven't turned ugly overnight? Usually its not are looks that dampens the flame.
How many times do we see a good looking guy or gal with a plain looking partner.
Looks are the first impression, but how many times have you seen a good looking guy or gal and started talking to them, some of them are big headed all them selves, some are to shy and it doesn't go any further than the introduction.
Has your personality or attitude changed? This is the most important issue of all.
Look at yourself have you turned into a bore are you predictable, don't you laugh any more, as your world turned miserable a lot of the time we don't notice the way we change.
We are in the inside looking out, and some times we should be on the outside looking in.
Has your appearance changed? This is a very important aspect as well.
It's very easy when you're with a partner to get complacent, for instance putting on weight, your dress sense.
Before you met your partner you was out to impress the opposite sex, but always remember your partner needs impressing too.