So you've broken up for one reason or another, and you've decided that it was a huge mistake.
You honestly feel that you and your ex should give it another shot, but you're not sure how to reopen negotiations so to speak.
When you are looking to get your ex back, you'll find that there are a few things that you can keep in mind that will give you a much better chance for success than you would have otherwise, so take a look.
1.
Think about what went wrong Identify the reason why you broke up.
Was a specific habit or a type of social interaction?Did cheating happen?While you might think this is easy enough, you'll find that far more often, figuring out what went wrong takes more thought that you originally expected.
2.
Figure out if what went wrong is fixable.
If you cheated on your ex, are you willing to make sure that it never happens again?If your ex is a workaholic and won't stop for important things, is it likely that they will give that up?Only plan a reunion if you think that things can be fixed, and not just glossed over.
3.
Know why you want to get back together.
"Because you think it will work" is a good reason.
"Because I want a chance to dump them," is not.
4.
Figure out what your ex is up to.
Don't turn into a stalker, but if you have any friends in common, figure out what your ex is doing.
Are they with someone new?If so, getting back together is going to be significantly more difficult.
The same goes for if your ex is still angry at you.