How To Get Your Ex Back In Four Simple Steps
You could be all tied up in knots and making all the wrong moves trying to get your ex lover back. You think this is a very intricate exercise. All it needs is that you have to use your brains on what to do and not act on your emotions.
Just try and follow these steps.
Step One:
A lot of people think that all you need to do, to get your ex lover back, is to talk to him or her. This, however, is not a good idea. What happens normally is that, the ex lover remains cold or indifferent and you end up getting upset. It is does not make any sense for your former lover sees you like this. This is a sure fire way to ensuring that the person withdraws from the scene. Rest assured the person will, surely, not be impressed with you and on the contrary will be very embarrassed with all the drama around.
You must be calm and controlled and give the person all the time and space they need. So cool down and be friendly.
Step Two:
When you have decided not to get in touch with your ex lover, you better get on with your life. Don't stay put and keep thinking about the relationship, you will be inclined to contact your old flame. So go out and enjoy life. You should start a workout program, go out with friends and generally do things that make you feel good. This is the rationale- you have control over your own actions not anyone else's. So make up your mind to be a winner and go out and have a ball or do you want to moan and stay at home. The effect on your former lover would be the same, either way.
Step Three:
As time goes by you can try to get in touch with your ex. Let him know that you still think about him, still care for him and relish the memories of the good times you spent together. Talk to him about common friends. The key line here is to appear happy and contented. You might be puzzled as to how this can win back your ex. But remember the time you first began dating. He didn't fall in love with you because you were desperate or needy. He fell in love with you because you were a happy, fun loving person. Give him a chance to breathe and experience the fun you.
Step Four:
Slowly things will begin to get on an even keel. This is probably the best time to suggest a date. Of course you won't use the word 'date' instead you could just suggest a casual meeting up. This way he can tell himself it's not something serious, just two friends chilling together.
Just try and follow these steps.
Step One:
A lot of people think that all you need to do, to get your ex lover back, is to talk to him or her. This, however, is not a good idea. What happens normally is that, the ex lover remains cold or indifferent and you end up getting upset. It is does not make any sense for your former lover sees you like this. This is a sure fire way to ensuring that the person withdraws from the scene. Rest assured the person will, surely, not be impressed with you and on the contrary will be very embarrassed with all the drama around.
You must be calm and controlled and give the person all the time and space they need. So cool down and be friendly.
Step Two:
When you have decided not to get in touch with your ex lover, you better get on with your life. Don't stay put and keep thinking about the relationship, you will be inclined to contact your old flame. So go out and enjoy life. You should start a workout program, go out with friends and generally do things that make you feel good. This is the rationale- you have control over your own actions not anyone else's. So make up your mind to be a winner and go out and have a ball or do you want to moan and stay at home. The effect on your former lover would be the same, either way.
Step Three:
As time goes by you can try to get in touch with your ex. Let him know that you still think about him, still care for him and relish the memories of the good times you spent together. Talk to him about common friends. The key line here is to appear happy and contented. You might be puzzled as to how this can win back your ex. But remember the time you first began dating. He didn't fall in love with you because you were desperate or needy. He fell in love with you because you were a happy, fun loving person. Give him a chance to breathe and experience the fun you.
Step Four:
Slowly things will begin to get on an even keel. This is probably the best time to suggest a date. Of course you won't use the word 'date' instead you could just suggest a casual meeting up. This way he can tell himself it's not something serious, just two friends chilling together.