How To Get Him Back If You Feel He Is Just Being Stubborn
Are you trying with everything that you have to get your ex back but you feel that it is just no use? Does it feel like everything that you say gets twisted around and taken out of context and there is no use in even trying to talk with him about getting back together? Is your ex just being stubborn and ridiculous and you wish you knew how to get him to change his mind so the pain from your broken heart would heal?
This stubbornness and childish behavior from your ex is really nothing surprising. It is actually a very natural reaction in the wake of your breakup and a way for him to maintain control of your relationship and to make him feel justified in breaking up with you in the first place. It can be a frustrating situation to be in but you should not lose hope or feel that getting him back is impossible.
You see, as he pushes you away and frustrates your attempts to love him, connect with him and actually do something positive to salvage your once loving relationship he is actually hoping that you quit. As tensions rise and emotions overflow he also feels in control of himself, the relationship and you, at the same time. Have you noticed that as you become more determined to work things out he grows more apathetic about you and your relationship?
Your relationship actually might be on the brink of total and utter catastrophic failure but with a little understanding and patience it is actually quite easy to get him to change his mind about your breakup and want to be with you again. Without a desire on his part and in his heart to mend the relationship you really are dealing with a person that is just about as stubborn as an old mule and perhaps even more childish than a 2 year old with his heels dug in as he refuses to even consider the possibility of getting back together.
The key to getting your ex to change his mind and getting him to desire you again, want you again and actually begin to pursue you instead of the other way around is in understanding how his heart work. As logical and task oriented as most guys are the only way to get your ex to come back to you is by appealing to his heart by using psychological techniques. In spite of what he might think or tell you, the love that he felt for you is still there just waiting to be uncovered and once you are able to get him to come to his own conclusion that he loves you the emotions will come flooding back to him again.
No amount of talking or therapy or logical conversations will make him feel the love that he needs to feel that will make his heart overrule his mind. But once he begins to feel that love that is waiting there for you, beckoning to you to set it free, the landslide of emotions will be overwhelming. He will not just fall in love with you again but the emotions of regret and sorrow for the pain that he has caused you by breaking up with you will be devastating to him and he will have little choice but to beg you for forgiveness and for a second chance.
This stubbornness and childish behavior from your ex is really nothing surprising. It is actually a very natural reaction in the wake of your breakup and a way for him to maintain control of your relationship and to make him feel justified in breaking up with you in the first place. It can be a frustrating situation to be in but you should not lose hope or feel that getting him back is impossible.
You see, as he pushes you away and frustrates your attempts to love him, connect with him and actually do something positive to salvage your once loving relationship he is actually hoping that you quit. As tensions rise and emotions overflow he also feels in control of himself, the relationship and you, at the same time. Have you noticed that as you become more determined to work things out he grows more apathetic about you and your relationship?
Your relationship actually might be on the brink of total and utter catastrophic failure but with a little understanding and patience it is actually quite easy to get him to change his mind about your breakup and want to be with you again. Without a desire on his part and in his heart to mend the relationship you really are dealing with a person that is just about as stubborn as an old mule and perhaps even more childish than a 2 year old with his heels dug in as he refuses to even consider the possibility of getting back together.
The key to getting your ex to change his mind and getting him to desire you again, want you again and actually begin to pursue you instead of the other way around is in understanding how his heart work. As logical and task oriented as most guys are the only way to get your ex to come back to you is by appealing to his heart by using psychological techniques. In spite of what he might think or tell you, the love that he felt for you is still there just waiting to be uncovered and once you are able to get him to come to his own conclusion that he loves you the emotions will come flooding back to him again.
No amount of talking or therapy or logical conversations will make him feel the love that he needs to feel that will make his heart overrule his mind. But once he begins to feel that love that is waiting there for you, beckoning to you to set it free, the landslide of emotions will be overwhelming. He will not just fall in love with you again but the emotions of regret and sorrow for the pain that he has caused you by breaking up with you will be devastating to him and he will have little choice but to beg you for forgiveness and for a second chance.