Are you wondering why they do it; why men cheat?  Are they so clueless that they do not know that it will break your heart?  Do they not care?  Is it your fault?  Let us examine the question together.  We think you will find this eye-opening.  This is why men cheat.

• Is it your fault?  Well, think of this.  Have you ever known a man to cheat at cards?  Of course you do.  And why do they do it?  Is it the fault of the other players?  Not at all.  He cheats because he is greedy and wants something that belongs to the other players – the money they are playing for or the high score, or just the satisfaction of being the winner.  The man who does this does not care about the feelings of his victims.  He is just selfish.

So that is the big attraction to men who cheat - they want something that does not belong to them – sexual relations with someone else while they belong to you.  Just like in the card game, it is not the fault of the victims; it is the greed of the cheater.

Does that make you feel better?  Did you think that it was your fault?  Please stop thinking that way.

• Good dating advice will tell you that if you have been hurt by a cheater, do not give up.  There are other men out there – men who are not greedy.  Male psychology tells us that not all men cheat.  You will be able to attract men.  You can make a guy fall in love with you and make him commit to you – and he will not cheat on you if he is not a cheater.

Do not be afraid to fall in love again.  This time make sure you watch him at cards and other games.  Find out the kind of man he is before you give your heart.  Greed is why men cheat; you are not the reason.