Practical Relationship Tips - Sex Object or Relationship, Which Do You Prefer?
It is interesting when you go out to social establishments at what you will see in the form of clothing and the behavior of young ladies.
There has always been a fashion war on what it dressing sexy and what is out and out promiscuous when single females are out to attract the attention of a male.
So let us be honest about what all females know but will refuse to admit.
It is pathetically easy to use sexuality to manipulate a man.
There is little intelligence, style, creativity or accomplishment by wearing ridiculously tight clothing, extremely low cut tops and skirts so short your rear end hangs out and can not sit down without exposing yourself.
Wake up ladies, it is not you he is interested in, it is the meat you flaunt in his face that has turned his head...
not you.
A relationship will always be based on the inner person but that does not mean that you do not want the outer you to be attractive and well kept.
If you do not want to be treated like a sexual object the key is to not act like one.
Sexual manipulation will never create a lasting relationship.
Presenting yourself as an object to be played with is all you will get.
In the beginning of a relationship men judge women based on how they present themselves.
So if you continue to attract the type of guy who wants only one thing and that is sex, take a look at what message you are sending him in the beginning.
Men are visual individuals and do not do much intellectual interpretation when it comes to what they see.
Dressing like a slut will get you treated like one.
And do not get upset when that is what you end up with.
Dressing and acting with taste, in a way that flatters you, will impress a man.
He will also love you for who you are instead of something else that you pretended to be.
It is difficult for a man to take you seriously when he can not get past the exterior distraction and learn to love you as a true, unique and special woman.
There is a time and a place for sexy clothing and behavior in a relationship and it is fun to please your partner.
But if you are using it to snag a man then don't be surprised when you are unhappy with your catch.
It may not be him that you need to be looking at but a re-evaluation of your own presentation of yourself.
There has always been a fashion war on what it dressing sexy and what is out and out promiscuous when single females are out to attract the attention of a male.
So let us be honest about what all females know but will refuse to admit.
It is pathetically easy to use sexuality to manipulate a man.
There is little intelligence, style, creativity or accomplishment by wearing ridiculously tight clothing, extremely low cut tops and skirts so short your rear end hangs out and can not sit down without exposing yourself.
Wake up ladies, it is not you he is interested in, it is the meat you flaunt in his face that has turned his head...
not you.
A relationship will always be based on the inner person but that does not mean that you do not want the outer you to be attractive and well kept.
If you do not want to be treated like a sexual object the key is to not act like one.
Sexual manipulation will never create a lasting relationship.
Presenting yourself as an object to be played with is all you will get.
In the beginning of a relationship men judge women based on how they present themselves.
So if you continue to attract the type of guy who wants only one thing and that is sex, take a look at what message you are sending him in the beginning.
Men are visual individuals and do not do much intellectual interpretation when it comes to what they see.
Dressing like a slut will get you treated like one.
And do not get upset when that is what you end up with.
Dressing and acting with taste, in a way that flatters you, will impress a man.
He will also love you for who you are instead of something else that you pretended to be.
It is difficult for a man to take you seriously when he can not get past the exterior distraction and learn to love you as a true, unique and special woman.
There is a time and a place for sexy clothing and behavior in a relationship and it is fun to please your partner.
But if you are using it to snag a man then don't be surprised when you are unhappy with your catch.
It may not be him that you need to be looking at but a re-evaluation of your own presentation of yourself.