Getting an Ex Back - Psychological Techniques to Ensure a Romantic Reunion
It is always difficult let go of a relationship that you have treasured over a long time.
Unfortunately, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship in this world where there is no misunderstandings or occasional conflict.
It is and always will be part of an ongoing relationship that such moments occur.
Experience suggests however, that there is always something that can be done to win your partner round.
Lets take a look at some key psychological factors that may be used in order to keep reunion possibilities open.
Ensure you each have your own space for a week or two.
Just avoid your normal scene for a while and go to a place, both physically and mentally, where you can mull over your thoughts.
Your ex partner may well wonder what has happened to you, but the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" may well bring its effect in to play.
Your apparent disappearance will hopefully have a soothing effect on your ex partners feelings.
They may even feel a little guilty at having caused your behaviour.
Act as if you are independent enough not to need your ex partner.
Having taken some time out, immerse yourself in various activities that do not require the help of your ex.
Try to rebuild your own world with hard work and self confidence.
Let everybody, not only your ex.
, understand that you are actually enjoying your life again after the breakup.
As the opportunity arises, drop little reminders to your ex.
about your past experiences together.
When mingling with mutual friends at a party or a simple gathering, try to build upon casual discussion about the past and your fun memories together.
This gradually awaken your ex.
's subconscious to what he/he might also be missing.
Eventually, your partner may come to realize that they also long for those precious memories to be experienced again.
it is also worth trying to make your ex partner a little jealous.
Again when given a chance to mingle with your ex again, a little flirting with some other singles at the party will allow you to observe whether your ex whether will be affected by jealousy.
In this way, you can gauge if your ex still loves you, with the possibility that they may initiate moves of their own to reignite the relationship between you.
Encourage help and support from family and friends.
Immediate family and close friends play an important role in fostering a longer lasting relationship.
So ask them for help in persuading your partner that there is hope for a second try at your relationship.
Your ex partner will be much re-assured if family and friends believe the original breakup was a mistake.
We have to accept that break-ups do happen, but where both parties still love each other and still value the relationship, then there is a good chance that these these moves will work.
Sometimes, we just need to have some space and time of our own to realize that we may have got things wrong and that we were hasty in calling for a break-up when we were really not ready to let go of the one we love.
Unfortunately, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship in this world where there is no misunderstandings or occasional conflict.
It is and always will be part of an ongoing relationship that such moments occur.
Experience suggests however, that there is always something that can be done to win your partner round.
Lets take a look at some key psychological factors that may be used in order to keep reunion possibilities open.
Ensure you each have your own space for a week or two.
Just avoid your normal scene for a while and go to a place, both physically and mentally, where you can mull over your thoughts.
Your ex partner may well wonder what has happened to you, but the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" may well bring its effect in to play.
Your apparent disappearance will hopefully have a soothing effect on your ex partners feelings.
They may even feel a little guilty at having caused your behaviour.
Act as if you are independent enough not to need your ex partner.
Having taken some time out, immerse yourself in various activities that do not require the help of your ex.
Try to rebuild your own world with hard work and self confidence.
Let everybody, not only your ex.
, understand that you are actually enjoying your life again after the breakup.
As the opportunity arises, drop little reminders to your ex.
about your past experiences together.
When mingling with mutual friends at a party or a simple gathering, try to build upon casual discussion about the past and your fun memories together.
This gradually awaken your ex.
's subconscious to what he/he might also be missing.
Eventually, your partner may come to realize that they also long for those precious memories to be experienced again.
it is also worth trying to make your ex partner a little jealous.
Again when given a chance to mingle with your ex again, a little flirting with some other singles at the party will allow you to observe whether your ex whether will be affected by jealousy.
In this way, you can gauge if your ex still loves you, with the possibility that they may initiate moves of their own to reignite the relationship between you.
Encourage help and support from family and friends.
Immediate family and close friends play an important role in fostering a longer lasting relationship.
So ask them for help in persuading your partner that there is hope for a second try at your relationship.
Your ex partner will be much re-assured if family and friends believe the original breakup was a mistake.
We have to accept that break-ups do happen, but where both parties still love each other and still value the relationship, then there is a good chance that these these moves will work.
Sometimes, we just need to have some space and time of our own to realize that we may have got things wrong and that we were hasty in calling for a break-up when we were really not ready to let go of the one we love.