Even though you have broken up, you can't seem to let go of your ex.
Everything that you do reminds you of him/her.
Slowly the fear of your ex sleeping with someone else begins to creep into your system.
Constant worrying is not going to change anything.
So get up and find out how you can change all this.
Socialize Out of sight is out of mind.
So, put on your party shoes and hit the social scene.
Make an appearance at a party which your ex is likely to attend.
Be warm yet distant when you meet him/her and concentrate on meeting other people.
Give your ex the idea that you are moving on.
Begin dating Get seen dating by your ex.
You could go to restaurants, pubs or theatres that he/she frequents.
Press the jealousy buttons carefully as you don't want your ex to think that you have moved on completely.
Ignite the fire that has been lying dormant in his/her heart.
Be friends Friendships can be a big help when you are trying to get your ex back.
Retain your friendships with your ex's family and friends by remembering their birthdays, anniversaries etc.
This will project you in a very positive light.
They will also be the medium to let your ex know that even though you are dating, you are open to reconciliation but shall not be around indefinitely.
Take charge and take ownership Initiate a meeting with your ex after you have let some time pass.
Propose to meet at a casual venue, one where you haven't gone while you were together as this will help in keeping the conversation natural without causing any pain.
Let your ex know that you have accepted the break up and have made necessary amends.
Tell him/her that you respect the decision but would like to remain friends.
You ex will see the new you and would at some point try to get back with you.
This is when you have to exercise caution and take things slowly.
Treat this as a new relationship and it will last forever.