There is nothing as distressing as putting up with someone who you are sure, is not in love with you anymore.
If you are a woman in love with your man and 'feel' that there is a growing distance between the two of you, you could be wondering if he is not in love with you anymore.
Is he asking for a release? Could be, check it out! But the sheer thought of setting him free if he is not in love with you anymore, could be shocking to many women.
However, to set him free does in no way mean that you are losing him forever.
On the contrary, when you support his decision to leave, or move on, you are actually putting him in a dilemma.
While he was expecting you to be dramatic, cry, throw tantrums, plead with him to stay back, etc - you turn out to be a good manager of disasters! What are you up to? Are you hiding someone from him? Many such thoughts crowd his mind.
In short, by setting him free, you are building the road and setting up the stage for him to come back.
Come to think of it, has your world fallen apart if he is not in love with you anymore? Not only are there other, perhaps more attractive men, but there are surely other people who you can love, live for and spend time with.
If he is not in love with you anymore, face the world boldly and gracefully.
Catch up with old friends, make new ones and generally have the time of your life.
Your lover boy would soon want to catch up with this free-spirited woman and get back to you sooner than you think! Finally, the golden truth behind a man-woman relationship is that men love to chase women and hate it when they are chased.
So if he is not in love with you anymore, simply evaporate from the scene.
Let him face the world alone and give him the chance to realize your worth.
If he has to make a few choices in life - this is the time.
And you are there to support whichever way he looks at life.
If he is not in love with you anymore, show him that the world is still a wonderful place to live in and love and of course, move on.