If you are a single person looking for love, your mindset determines your success.
You can repeat thousands of positive affirmations, but if you believe something different deep down in your sub-conscious mind, those thoughts will determine your success in attracting love.
Here is an example: You tell yourself that you want to find happiness with a life partner, but you really believe that you are better off alone.
Do you see how contradictory this is? Let us look at this particular belief: "I am better off alone.
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• Where did it come from?
• At what point in your life did you come to this conclusion?

Perhaps you were raised by a single mother who was disenchanted because she and your father did not have a successful marriage.
Maybe she told you that you were better off alone when you began to be interested in the opposite sex.
Maybe she even went so far as to tell you that you should not marry.
Another possible scenario is that you have had a series of relationships that ended badly.
Taking these collective losses as a lesson, you decided that you just could not make it work, so you were better off alone.
You may be divorced and bitter.
Maybe you hang out with other people who are divorced and rehash the horror stories of betrayal, being taken to the cleaners by your ex, being cheated on, abused, dragged through terrible and costly custody battles, and the list goes on.
Any of these scenarios are compelling.
The problem is that they are all stories you have been telling yourself.
You have convinced yourself that you and relationships just do not mix.
But you still want love.
So you have a problem.
What to do? First of all, if you are serious about finding and keeping love, you have to let go of this mindset.
This is a limiting belief.
It limits your ability to achieve true love.
Is it easy to let go of a belief? No.
If it were, more people would achieve their dreams.
Letting go of this belief means that you must decide that it no longer serves you.
Maybe this belief kept you safe at one time.
Now, it is keeping you from reaching your goal of having a great relationship with the one for you.
Secondly, get at the root of this belief.
Ask yourself about the origins of this belief.
Get very honest with yourself.
Ask yourself if this belief is valid anymore.
If it is not, rewrite the belief.
You can reprogram your sub-conscious mind so that it matches your conscious mind.
Your new belief can be something like this: I am better off in a loving, healthy relationship.
I attract a loving relationship.
I function better when I am in a healthy, loving relationship.
Use your imagination to create your new belief and write it and post it in a place where you will see it daily.
Say your new belief at least twice a day.