Your ex ruthlessly broke your heart and didn't even bother to tell you what the reason was.
When you tried confronting, they ended up saying "aren't you happy to see me happy".
Even taking away the right to ask or do something about the situation.
You tried to recap everything that happened in past week or month or even year.
Not even a hint of what went wrong.
Now you want to play mind games to get them back.
It is fair enough especially when your ex wasn't that fair to walk out on you.
Don't let your ex forget you- Bump into your ex everywhere they go.
Come up with reasons, which are hard enough to disbelieve.
Give them no reasons to believe that you are stalking them.
Don't let them forget you for a single minute.
Pop up at places they least expect you.
Look irresistible- Change your hairdo.
Get all the skin treatment to make you look couple of years younger.
Get into a new exercise regime.
Treat yourself with clothes to redo your wardrobe.
Look different, younger, trendy and great.
Make heads turn when you are together.
Imagine people complimenting you, when your ex is around.
Show you are least effected- Irrespective of their presence, you carry on with the things you enjoyed before.
Rather you are using the all the time wisely that you never use to get while being together.
Show how free you are now.
Like you are getting back to friends, which your ex felt was a complete waste of time.
Let your ex find you flirting with the person he/she disapproved the most- Your ex can't even say anything if they feel jealous.
Make sure your ex is around every time you are out on lunch, dinner or a party with this person.
The more your ex fumes the better it is for you.
Stay connected but not quite available.
Make them feel that leaving you was the mistake of a lifetime.
Make sure you rule over your ex's mind.
Once he/she can't have enough of you around, they will come back looking for you.
Write your own rules and don't let your ex make any rule.
Ruling all over is the key to win.