To get their wife back men make all kinds of mistakes when they let their emotions barrel out of control.
Most men don't realize them when they happen, but compound the fractures in their relationship when they try to get back with their wife.
Examining many dysfunctional marriages and past relationships of friends and family.
Some very common reconciliation mistakes always show up.
Here are the top three you should avoid.

1. Respect - When you fail to respect her thoughts and her actions you are courting disaster.
   She is also dealing with an avalanche of emotions and trying to piece it all together.
   Sometimes it is best to let her have some time to bring clarity to her thoughts.
   
2. Expert counsel - There are experts out there who can help repair the rift in your relationship.
   Many men try and go it alone and patch things up themselves.
   It's important to put your ego aside and use some expert guidance.
   Men are problem solvers by nature, but something as critical as a marriage separation should have a third party to help get past communication road blocks.
   
3. Identifying Mistakes - Face facts, both of you have made mistakes which have caused some of your problems.
   What you need to do now is identify them and start working them out.
   The quicker you fix what's wrong with you, the faster reconciliation is possible.
   

These common mistakes men make when they want to get their wife back occur to often.
Sometimes we patch things up on our own and make everything all the worse.
To get your wife back, it's okay to lean on someone else for advice.