Your relationship is slowly traveling downhill and you are desperate to stop if from hurtling down the slope.
However, one wrong move on your part and it will spoil what could be salvaged.
If this is your dilemma then follow the seven points mentioned below.
Sit up and make a plan Very few things in life self correct and relationship is not one of them.
You have to sit up and take note and seriously start considering repairing the damage before it is too late.
This seriousness will not miss your partner and he/she too will cooperate in making the relationship work.
Stop being dogmatic Relationships can never succeed if one or both partners are dogmatic about the way they see things.
You need to look at issues and situations from your partner's point of view.
Once your partner realizes that you are making an effort he/she will not stick to their stand and will look to find the golden mean.
Honesty and sincerity You have to first decide why you want to save the relationship.
If it is for money or any other material gains that you stand to make then you are not helping yourself.
You should genuinely want to save the relationship for reasons like "love and understanding".
Only when your partner realizes that you are doing it for love will he/she also make an effort to make it work.
Approach sex with a difference If sex has become boring and dull then you will need to infuse fresh excitement into it.
You will have to drastically change the way you look at sex.
Sex is not just for procreation but from now on you need to look at sex as recreation.
Loyalty and trust These two are the building blocks of any relationship.
Both need to be present in your relationship for it to succeed.
If you have the habit of doubting your partner unnecessarily then one day he/she is going to get weary of giving you explanations.
Give up this habit immediately and learn to trust your lover.
Don't just talk Very often both partners just talk to each other and do not communicate or connect with each other.
Learn to understand your partner or at least make an effort to do so.
Just staying under the same roof does not make sense if you do not communicate with each other.
The relationship comes first If you have been taking your career too seriously and in the bargain neglecting your partner then you are very wrong.
Remember as an employee you are dispensable and if you are not there in the organization they will find someone else.
However, it will be difficult to replace your partner.