I want to congratulate and thank you for trying to save your marriage.
 A lot of marriages fail, and it's because people don't do what you are doing.
They don't fight for their marriages - because they don't have the qualities to maintain a marriage.
I have been in that exact situation - my husband wanted a divorce but I didn't.
It was awful to be alone in trying to save a marriage.
In the end I saved my marriage and everything is great now - and I have made a webpage telling about my experiences.
 But before I give you the link, I have some serious advice to give to you.
Most people think that the only thing that can be done to save a marriage is to try to talk to your spouse and try to talk him out of a divorce.
 Unfortunately, this is not true and can even be very harmful for your marriage! Talking and sorting your differences out was an option when both of you wanted to stay in the marriage.
But now that your spouse wants a divorce, "talking" essentially bogs down to you begging your spouse to stay in the marriage.
And this is a BIG no-no.
Your spouse is already fed up with you and the marriage.
When you apply even more pressure by constantly apologizing or begging, you're making everything worse.
 You need to act in order to relieve your spouse of that "being fed up with the marriage" situation - and it's EXACTLY the opposite of begging.
  There are a number of ways for doing this, and one of the best is to simply be absent for some time.
No, don't move out for two weeks or something - simply do not be in front of your spouse's eye for the whole day.
 For example, go out in the Sunday morning and don't come until it's late evening.
 This will help to reverse the whole situation and will help you greatly in your efforts.