As every marriage, my marriage too had begun on a spectacular note.
That dream-like ceremony and honeymoon - nothing could be better.
But as time passed, we lost a lot of things on the way.
And I found myself wondering if my husband still loved me.
The horrible answer wasn't late: No, he didn't.
And our marriage had a lot of problems.
It was clear that we were heading for a divorce.
But I didn't want that - I wanted to save my marriage.
I wanted to make my spouse love me again - I knew that was the key to solving our marriage problems.
The methods of making him love me again I could think of myself; were nothing but horrible.
I literally was mind blocked and couldn't think anything else than just crying and begging for him for forgiveness.
Of course, that didn't work and made everything even worse.
But today he loves me.
We are still together, our marriage is very strong; and we love each other more than everything.
What did I do, then; to make my spouse love me again? It was a realization on my part that I was getting nowhere by acting according to my emotions.
I was desperate, and quite simply my mind was being overtaken with my intense emotions.
My emotions were telling me to go and beg him.
While what really needed to be done was just the opposite - because people don't want a pathetic spouse.
People are attracted to what they CAN'T have.
So this is what you must do if you want to make your spouse love you again.
Quit being the depressed, apologetic and begging; and start being the other way instead.