Hypnosis Will Defeat Your Inferiority Complex
While self-hypnosis will defeat your inferiority complex, you must be very careful how and how much you use it.
It's worth having a few experimental runs first.
The main point to remember is that you've taken a few steps into a field which is completely foreign to you.
Self hypnosis by itself is one thing, but when you're doing it for a very definite purpose, it's quite another.
Let's assume that you need to build your self confidence.
Without fully realizing it as you've approached adulthood, your self-confidence has been slowly eroded for any number of reasons.
Perhaps even as a child, you weren't particularly confident.
You tended to be a follower, not a leader.
The trouble was, you became so used to this way of behaving, of allowing others to lead you by the nose, that bit by bit your confidence slowly evaporated.
I hate to ask this question, but the fact that you allowed yourself to be led, was it through laziness? I'm not saying it was, but there's no question that it's often so much easier to just turn round and say; "Well, all right, you take the lead this time," or words to that effect.
Before you know where you are, you've faded into the background and have become just one of the crowd.
One morning you wake up, though, and ask yourself; "Why have I become such a follower? I never used to be.
People would look to me to tell them what to do.
What the heck's happened? I must do something about this.
" The first thing to bear in mind is that there's no tearing hurry.
In fact, just the opposite.
Slow and easy is far preferable to going at the exercise like a bull at a gate.
The first thing to do is to practice self-hypnosis, not forgetting speaking into the audio machine, until your delivery is perfectly fluent.
Stuttering and stammering can only hold you back at best, and completely ruin it at worst.
Another point to bear in mind is that when you receive criticism from others, what's to say that you're right and they're wrong? This is one of the most serious mistakes you can make.
You've become so used to following other people, that you do so now without a second thought.
Then again, always be prepared to listen to other people; they may well have some good ideas, but simply taking notice of the person who just shoots your idea down in flames without any good reason, may be ignored.
So practice your self-hypnosis and then concentrate on applying it to the project you have at hand.
It may be that you're perfectly capable of handling your idea single handed, but if you do need help, make sure you explain the whole concept clearly and fully to whoever is helping you.
Keep practicing your self-hypnosis and making sure you become more and more fluent with your presentation.
The more fluent you become, the more confidence you'll impart into those who are helping you.
And remember, this will probably be the first of many times when you're asked to take the lead on a project.
Therefore, the more you practice your self-hypnosis and presentation, the better you're bound to become.
It's worth having a few experimental runs first.
The main point to remember is that you've taken a few steps into a field which is completely foreign to you.
Self hypnosis by itself is one thing, but when you're doing it for a very definite purpose, it's quite another.
Let's assume that you need to build your self confidence.
Without fully realizing it as you've approached adulthood, your self-confidence has been slowly eroded for any number of reasons.
Perhaps even as a child, you weren't particularly confident.
You tended to be a follower, not a leader.
The trouble was, you became so used to this way of behaving, of allowing others to lead you by the nose, that bit by bit your confidence slowly evaporated.
I hate to ask this question, but the fact that you allowed yourself to be led, was it through laziness? I'm not saying it was, but there's no question that it's often so much easier to just turn round and say; "Well, all right, you take the lead this time," or words to that effect.
Before you know where you are, you've faded into the background and have become just one of the crowd.
One morning you wake up, though, and ask yourself; "Why have I become such a follower? I never used to be.
People would look to me to tell them what to do.
What the heck's happened? I must do something about this.
" The first thing to bear in mind is that there's no tearing hurry.
In fact, just the opposite.
Slow and easy is far preferable to going at the exercise like a bull at a gate.
The first thing to do is to practice self-hypnosis, not forgetting speaking into the audio machine, until your delivery is perfectly fluent.
Stuttering and stammering can only hold you back at best, and completely ruin it at worst.
Another point to bear in mind is that when you receive criticism from others, what's to say that you're right and they're wrong? This is one of the most serious mistakes you can make.
You've become so used to following other people, that you do so now without a second thought.
Then again, always be prepared to listen to other people; they may well have some good ideas, but simply taking notice of the person who just shoots your idea down in flames without any good reason, may be ignored.
So practice your self-hypnosis and then concentrate on applying it to the project you have at hand.
It may be that you're perfectly capable of handling your idea single handed, but if you do need help, make sure you explain the whole concept clearly and fully to whoever is helping you.
Keep practicing your self-hypnosis and making sure you become more and more fluent with your presentation.
The more fluent you become, the more confidence you'll impart into those who are helping you.
And remember, this will probably be the first of many times when you're asked to take the lead on a project.
Therefore, the more you practice your self-hypnosis and presentation, the better you're bound to become.