How do you get your husband to love you again? This is a question many married women wonder about once the honeymoon phase has ended.
Relationships can be hard work and this is especially true of married couples.
Balancing the husband and wife dynamic with being co-parents and trying to juggle work and bills can certainly take its toll.
If you've been feeling as though your husband just isn't as connected to you emotionally as he once was, don't give up on the marriage.
There are several ways to get him to fall back in love with you, even deeper than he was before.
The question of how do you get your husband to love you again has several answers including changing your own behavior.
It's very easy to blame our spouse when the relationship shifts and we sense his feelings are changing.
The problem with that is sometimes our actions also play a part in what our spouse is feeling.
If you've started taking your husband for granted it can change how he feels about you.
Do you nag him about things that need to be tended to around the house? Do you take time to focus on the things he wants to talk about? Starting today make an effort to focus more of your energy on being supportive and kind to your man.
Compliment him on the things you enjoy about him, thank him for being a part of your life.
In other words make him feel valued and special.
You also need to ensure that your husband understands that you value the romantic part of the relationship still.
As women we often feel a great deal of pressure to be perfect mothers and with that we lose sight of how important it is to be a supportive and loving wife.
Make time just for your husband.
You can do this each evening once the children go to bed if they're small or you can arrange for a sitter once or twice a week.
Just make an effort to show your husband that you still want your alone time with him.
You need to nurture the relationship between you two to keep it alive and well.