So you want to learn the secrets to getting your ex back? Well, the reality is that there are universal laws in effect that can either make or break your chances of getting back together.
If you've made mistakes, now is the time to look back and try and remedy the situation.
This will take energy and effort on your part, since there was obviously things that your ex was not happy about.
Getting an ex back has a few tried and tested steps, read on to learn these steps.
Step Number One: Accept the Breakup Feel and accept the breakup.
At first you may decide unconsciously that denying the breakup works best.
What happens if that you try and plead and beg your way back to your ex, only to find out that you are failing miserably.
However, the better approach is to suck it up and accept it for now.
Although you may feel that will totally backfire, let me help explain a few things.
First, what this does is allow your ex to cool off.
This is an important step because by allowing the breakup to happen, it will plant a seed of doubt in your ex's mind.
She will possibly second guess the breakup since it was so easy for you to let her go.
Step Number Two: No Contact Yes, you read correctly.
Stop contacting your ex.
After you set the boundaries by accepting the breakup, you now have the responsibility to stop contacting them.
This means no email, no text, no Facebook or Twitter.
YOu can also counting out drunk calling or texting as an option.
If a birthday is coming up then a simple email wishing them a good time will suffice.
Everything else is off limits.
The main reason for the no contact is two-fold.
First, you don't want to appear needy or clingy in the eyes of your ex.
Secondly, you have to start putting your time into more productive things, like yourself.
For anyone, who's been through a breakup, there are two choices to make.
You can either go downhill or make positive improvements with your life.
By enforcing the no contact rule, you will definitely have more time to work on your inner game.
Leave all the worries and sadness behind, it won't help you get your ex back.
The other sire of the coin is that you need to start doing things without your ex.
This takes us to rule number three.
Step Number Three: Live Life If you want the best chances to get back with an ex, then you have to start having some wings and be a social butterfly.
You need to meet and make new friends and new experiences.
The reason your ex broke up was that he or she didn't want the "old" you.
With new experiences and by meeting new people, you can begin to feel better about yourself, without having your ex define you.
This boost in self confidence can do wonders for your attitude.
With a healthy attitude, you ex and or others will see you as a positive person and will automatically be drawn to you.
WHo doesn't like to be around positive, happy people? These three steps are necessary when going through a breakup.
The good thing is that these methods are proven and do work.
If you apply them to your breakup, you can come out on top and unscathed.