Breakups are caused by many different reasons ranging from incompatibility or personality differences, infidelity, influence of family and friends, distance and loss of love for one another.
If you are thinking of how to win your ex girlfriend back, the first step is to know what caused your breakup.
Knowing the root of the breakup will help determine your strategies in winning her back.
Once you pinpoint this, follow these steps.
This is you ultimate guide on how to get a girlfriend back.
1.
If the problem is with you, decide to change.
Make a personal resolve that you will not do the things that you did in the past that led to the breakup.
If the problem is with her, decide to accept it if you really want to win her back.
If the she really needs to change, don't bring it up at once.
You can later work on it together.
2.
Invite her for lunch or dinner so you can talk about your resolution.
Be frank in admitting your mistake and be sincere in telling her your firm decision to change.
But do not overdo it to the point that you look desperate.
3.
 Be patient.
 Chances are that she will not immediately accept your plans.
  Give her time to think and process your intentions.
In the mean time, show to her that you really mean what you say.
  4.
Sometimes little things make a big impression.
Given that you've been together for quite sometime already, it is assumed that you know the things that please her.
Don't hesitate to do these things for her.
5.
Is she warming up to you? Talk to her again wanting to get back together again.
Ask her if she is willing to accept you gain in her life.
She may tell you her conditions before she gets into the relationship again.
These are just a few ideas to get you started if you want to win back your ex girlfriend.
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