Are you in the process of getting his heart, but it's turning out to be a lot more complicated than you thought? Did you think you could just slip into a sexy dress, smile flirtatiously and, snap, he'd be crazy about you? Are you wondering why all of this didn't work and what you can do to actually win his love? Relying on sex is common, but so it's dismal success rate.
If it's a real relationship you want, then you have to concentrate on actually building a relationship.
This can only come if you manage to get an emotional connection that is strong and solid.
So where do you get that connection? Start slow and start without pressure.
Those first few dates are crucial in setting up the tone of your relationship.
If you come on too strong and aggressive you could set him off.
If you're too eager and needy, you could scare him.
Try to simply be pleasant and fun and allow those first dates to be amusing moments of discovery.
With every new thing you discover and like about the other, that emotional bond will grow.
This can take time and you shouldn't feel you need to rush it.
You really want to know as much as you can about him and you want the feelings that grow to be based on more than just the physical attraction you feel.
Help him along by remaining fun and showing how highly you think of him.
This doesn't have to be through fawning and exaggerated praise.
Be honest and let him know when he impresses you and the things you admire about him.
With a real solid connection and with profound emotions, you can then move on to building a great relationship.
He'll fall in love with you in a way that will last a life time.