Secrets to Attract Men - You Too Can Learn Them!
Yes, there are secrets to attract men.
And while many women don't realize it, the secrets are actually very easy to learn, if you know where to look.
The reality is that all the secrets to attracting men come down to understanding how a man's mind (and emotions) works.
While the women's lib movement created a lot of wonderful changes in the world, it brought one major misconception with it.
Somewhere along the line the idea was generated that instead of seeing women as equal to men, it was implied that women are the same as men.
If there is a more ridiculous notion for a woman to have when trying to attract men, I can't think of it.
Of course men and women are not the same, and thank god for it! Which woman really wants to waste hours driving all over creation, when she can easily stop and ask directions? Unfortunately, too many women make the false assumption that men think and react the way women do, no matter how often they've seen that this isn't the case.
So, the secrets to attract men are really the secrets of men's minds.
Here's a couple of key starting points.
Big Picture Men are big picture people.
As far as anyone can tell, it's pretty much hardwired.
They just don't see details.
Whether the details are dust on the table, their girlfriend's birthday, or you hinting that you'd love to get a cup of coffee, it's going right over their heads.
That doesn't mean you should ignore the details, after all, as any woman knows, it's the details that make the big picture.
But keep in mind that any individual detail is going to be lost on a man.
So don't hint.
Just go a head and ask if he'd like some coffee.
Practical Men think in practical terms.
They give flowers because they know they should, but most of them don't understand why it's such a big deal.
Instead, a man will go out of his way to fix that annoying drip on the bathroom sink you have been complaining about (it's a detail, they certainly don't care) and then don't understand why you say he never does anything for you.
So turn it around on them.
Most women know better then to give a man flowers, but it generally doesn't occur to us to get the guy in the next cubical a desk organizer to help him keep track of his papers.
And while many women don't realize it, the secrets are actually very easy to learn, if you know where to look.
The reality is that all the secrets to attracting men come down to understanding how a man's mind (and emotions) works.
While the women's lib movement created a lot of wonderful changes in the world, it brought one major misconception with it.
Somewhere along the line the idea was generated that instead of seeing women as equal to men, it was implied that women are the same as men.
If there is a more ridiculous notion for a woman to have when trying to attract men, I can't think of it.
Of course men and women are not the same, and thank god for it! Which woman really wants to waste hours driving all over creation, when she can easily stop and ask directions? Unfortunately, too many women make the false assumption that men think and react the way women do, no matter how often they've seen that this isn't the case.
So, the secrets to attract men are really the secrets of men's minds.
Here's a couple of key starting points.
Big Picture Men are big picture people.
As far as anyone can tell, it's pretty much hardwired.
They just don't see details.
Whether the details are dust on the table, their girlfriend's birthday, or you hinting that you'd love to get a cup of coffee, it's going right over their heads.
That doesn't mean you should ignore the details, after all, as any woman knows, it's the details that make the big picture.
But keep in mind that any individual detail is going to be lost on a man.
So don't hint.
Just go a head and ask if he'd like some coffee.
Practical Men think in practical terms.
They give flowers because they know they should, but most of them don't understand why it's such a big deal.
Instead, a man will go out of his way to fix that annoying drip on the bathroom sink you have been complaining about (it's a detail, they certainly don't care) and then don't understand why you say he never does anything for you.
So turn it around on them.
Most women know better then to give a man flowers, but it generally doesn't occur to us to get the guy in the next cubical a desk organizer to help him keep track of his papers.