We all are distinct.
Because each individual is created uniquely for unique purpose in life, no two people in the world can be the same.
There are always diversities among people.
In the same manner, it is not a big deal if you have dissimilarities with your spouse.
Even as a man and a woman there are major differences you may encounter.
However, the big deal lies on not having them but on how you treat them.
Some couples seem to see their differences as a point of conflict.
They struggle to change the characters of each other, while there are some which are not going to change never at all.
When you face this kind of challenges, here is one important thing you can do.
Accept your differences and appreciate each other.
If you manage them well, differences are not starting points of conflicts.
They are building blocks of your personality and your marriage too.
You will have a chance to see things from different point of direction.
It is diversity which can complete us, not similarity.
That is why your differences are the building blocks of your marriage.
And that is the main reason God made us unique to each other; to be holy and complete so that we can live the perfect life he created for us from the very beginning.
Your differences are not to argue about.
God did not make them that way.
They are in your marriage to build you up.
They are there to complete you.
Handle them well and get benefited from them.